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ABSTRACT
The article discusses the formation of young people's ideas about family life and the specific characteristics of these
ideas, as well as their importance in preparing young people for family life.
KEYWORDS
Family, imagination, family life, family relations, family building motives, maternal and paternal roles, social status,
social roles, family environment.
INTRODUCTION
Family and family life form the center of individual and
community life. The family and its spiritual and
economic well-being simultaneously lead to the moral
and spiritual perfection of the individual and the socio-
economic development of the society. Therefore, the
study of various aspects of the family and its life is of
great importance both from a scientific and practical
point of view.
Family life and its full positive development are largely
determined by family members' perceptions of family
life. The compatibility of these ideas or, on the
contrary, the presence of conflicts between them
affects the socio-psychological climate of family life
and determines the level of its economic and social-
spiritual well-being. In this respect, it is important to
form the right ideas about family life in young people.
Research Article
PERCEPTIONS ABOUT FAMILY LIFE AS A FACTOR OF PREPARATION
FOR FAMILY LIFE
Submission Date:
December 20, 2023,
Accepted Date:
December 25, 2023,
Published Date:
December 30, 2023
Crossref doi:
https://doi.org/10.37547/ajsshr/Volume03Issue12-63
Abdullayeva Dilbar Ubaydullaevna
Doctor Of Psychology (Dsc), Associate Professor At "Pedagogy And Psychology" Department At Alfraganus
University, Uzbekistan
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The first ideas about family life arise in the individual's
own family and are perfected according to the place he
occupies in it. The first goal and task of the scientific
research conducted within these circumstances is
where a person gets his knowledge and ideas about
family and family life.
A number of studies have shown that the personal role
models of their fathers play an important role in the
attitude of girls and boys to the roles of mother and
father. We can find such information in the research of
L.S.Alekseeva, A.I.Zakharova, E.A.Morshinina. From
this information, father plays an important role for
boys, and mother plays an important role for girls.
From them, it is also known that boys prefer a wife who
resembles their mother, and girls prefer a husband
who resembles their father.
We can see such differentiation in the division of
household chores in the family. It is known that,
usually, young people have a certain social position in
family work and household management. Therefore,
their social status in the family plays an important role
in the formation of their imagination. They participate
in family affairs according to their position. Research
shows that on the one hand, young people are less
involved in family affairs, and on the other hand,
negative moral qualities can be formed in them as a
result of excessive care by their parents. From these
two cases, the distribution of economic work and the
formation and development of the subjects of their
implementation are not mediated by the direct
example of parents, but by their participation in family
life and personal characteristics that arise on this basis.
After the young people build a family, they do not
directly repeat the household chores and chores like
their father or mother, but based on their personal
qualities that are part of their family. In our opinion,
participation of these personal qualities and
individuality in household chores and household
management is the basis for the formation of family
(sexual, parental, conjugal) identity in couples who are
the owners of a young family.
In the formation of ideas about family and family life,
emotional-emotional interpersonal relations in the
family play an important role. These relationships
determine whether perceptions of the family are
positive or negative. Therefore, "the family not only
educates or, on the contrary, poisons the foundations
of further social education." According to a number of
studies related to emotional-emotional interpersonal
relations in the family, personal qualities related to the
emotional sphere of a person and relationships with
other people are formed. These qualities, formed on
the basis of parental relationships in the family, remain
in the person for a long time and are manifested in the
person's interactions, especially with other members
of his family. It turns out that the characteristics of the
parents' relationship are repeated by the children after
they start a family. According to E.K.Vasileva, the family
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of young men and women who grew up in an
incomplete family or in a family with negative relations
between their parents often breaks up. Perceptions of
family life under the influence of interpersonal
emotional-emotional relations become important
internal factors of a person "projecting" and
"idealizing" his family life. Although research in this
area does not directly examine perceptions of family
life, it allows us to directly draw conclusions about their
effects. It is known that customs and traditions require
certain behaviors and attitudes for the female and
male genders. This situation is especially manifested in
the communication and relations between men and
women in family life. Imaginations about family life
emdiv relationships between the sexes, "project"
and idealize them. In this, firstly, perceptions of family
life and secondly, the "projects" that arise based on
them are differentiated. This differentiation is
manifested in the opinions of boys and girls about the
characteristics related to family life activities,
appearance, volitional and communicative qualities of
the person. Thus, perceptions of family life
psychologically serve as an important factor that
"designs" family life and life in it. In this, we will be able
to clearly see the "ideal" and "anti-ideal" sides of the
"planned" family life. This situation is initially expressed
in the opinions of boys and girls about what
characteristics a husband or wife, father or mother
should have and what they should not have. In a
number of studies related to this field, it is known that
young people have certain ideas about what qualities
their future spouses should have, but lack of ideas
about what qualities they should or should not have as
a husband (or wife). They are more likely to have an
idea of who will do what in the household in the
husband (or wife) household.
It turned out that girls value the following qualities in
their future spouses: education, intelligence, kindness,
determination, business acumen, self-control among
people, sports. In the family, the husband is considered
as the head of the family even if he is a "helper in the
family for the wife" for both boys and girls.
It became known that the following qualities are
prioritized in the image of a woman: intelligence,
beauty, business acumen, kindness, civility, having a
higher education, having a good profession, preparing
good food, sewing, having the skills to raise children.
Young men and women place full responsibility for the
family on their wives. It is recognized that there are
certain conflicts in the minds of girls between choosing
a profession and aspiring to get married in the future,
but at the same time, it is shown that their imagination
fully reflects the values outside the family. If girls have
a strong desire to successfully fulfill family and social
roles in accordance with each other, it is known that
boys have a preference for professional activity.
It has been shown in a number of studies that boys and
girls have different directions in the distribution of
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housework. In this, the direction of "man's" or
"woman's" work prevails. We can observe the same
information in the different opinions of young men and
women about the role of the family in social life. For
example, boys pay more attention to the family's task
of raising children, while for girls, the issue of mutual
cooperation between husband and wife in the family is
interesting. We can also see gender differentiation in
how decisions are made in certain problematic
situations. It turns out that girls tend to make
democratic decisions in the family more than boys.
Young men, on the other hand, believe that decision-
making is only their responsibility.
We can also observe such sexual differentiation in
thoughts about mutual emotional-emotional relations.
If girls value psychological relationships with their
future spouses and mutual trust more than raising
children, it turns out that for young men, family
recreation and raising children is a priority. It goes
without saying that in the designed "ideal" marriage,
the boys and girls have different orientations.
Although young men and women accept "love" as the
first condition for family happiness, young men believe
that women are more responsible for the emotional-
emotional relationship between a couple, while girls
prioritize emotional support from their husbands.
These situations are manifested when girls and boys
perform tasks designed to analyze the causes of family
conflicts.
CONCLUSION
As we mentioned above, young people's ideas about
family life depend primarily on the social and
psychological environment of their families. In this
sense, the nature of married men's and women's
perceptions of family life plays an important role in the
inner life of the family. When preparing young people
for family life, studying their imagination and
organizing work on this basis guarantees the expected
result.
The more perfect the knowledge and ideas about
family life, the higher the chances of young people to
build a strong family. Therefore, it is necessary to
accept our young people as independent, mature
individuals and form correct ideas about the ups and
downs of family life in them.
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