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ABSTRACT
The article presents the opinions of Eastern scholars on raising a child in the family. Also, the influence of the stability
of parental relations in the family on the child's psychological health has been shown. In particular, it has been proven
that the healthy development of a child in a family depends on the method and style of parenting.
KEYWORDS
Family, child's personality, parent's personal example, genetic characteristics, social environment effects, good
behavior, upbringing, education.
INTRODUCTION
Educational issues occupy an important place in the
scientific heritage of Eastern thinkers. In particular,
they paid a lot of attention to the family and the
upbringing of children in the family. Thinkers have
been trying to solve this problem because the
education of the young generation determines the
future destiny of humanity and equips them with
positive criteria. A number of works of thinkers such as
Muhammad ibn Musa al-Khorazmi, Abu Nasr Farabi,
Abu Rayhan Beruni, Abu Ali ibn Sina, Muhammad
Kashghari, Yusuf Khos Khajib, Kaikovus, Omar
Khayyam, Ahmed Yugnaki, Husayn Vaiz Koshifi,
provide information on the issues of raising children in
the family.
Research Article
THE PROBLEM OF PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT OF THE CHILD IN THE
FAMILY IN THE WORKS OF EASTERN SCHOLARS
Submission Date:
June 02, 2023,
Accepted Date:
June 07, 2023,
Published Date:
June 12, 2023
Crossref doi:
https://doi.org/10.37547/ajsshr/Volume03Issue06-06
U.B. Yusupkhodjaeva
Doctoral Student Of The Research Institute “Family And Women”
, Uzbekistan
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According to Abu Nasr Farabi, all human abilities and
qualities have two sides. The first are innate, hereditary
natural qualities, and the second are qualities that are
formed under the influence of experience, practice,
and circumstances. He also emphasizes that it is
necessary to take into account the characteristics that
are related to each other in child education [1].
The issue of raising a child in the family is also present
in the views of Abu Bakr Muhammad ibn Al-Abbas Al-
Khorazmi. He says that parents are of two kinds: the
father of birth and the father of education: the first
because of physical life and the second because of
spiritual life. Accordingly, it is important to take care of
them in an organic unity in the work of education. His
following words are very instructive: "I have not seen a
better teacher than time, a student who can learn
better than a person." From his words, on the one
hand, we understand the decisive influence of the
social environment on child upbringing, and on the
other hand, we notice that the human personality can
mature as a result of education [3].
Beruni advises parents to keep the child in moderation.
It is said that this can be achieved by keeping them
away from anger, fear and sadness, insomnia, and
trying to make them find what they want and benefit
from, and keep them away from what they don't like.
Different attitudes of parents to children cause
different behaviors. The emergence of good habits not
only affects the child's psyche, but also helps his
physiological growth. And bad behavior leads to
various customer violations. On the contrary, changes
in the child's div cause changes in his mental
behavior. The thinker scientifically substantiates the
fact that physical and mental health is the result of the
moderation of the child's behavior [2].
Ibn Sina emphasizes that the upbringing of a child in a
family is very complex and delicate, and it should be
started from a young age and carried out consistently.
He spoke about the educational importance of mother
Allah and said that "Alla" performs two tasks. The first
is to give physical rest to the child by rocking it; the
second, from rocking the cradle in a rhythm, a mother's
love is excited, and from her love for her child, the
mother's dream hope is removed from the net of the
heart. This unique song sounds like an ode to his child,
and it sinks into his child's soul with all his
consciousness. In this way, the child has a condition
that he did not realize. He gradually begins to
understand this bright world. It is from this realization
that learning begins. The same learning is education.
Learning itself comes from perception. Paying
attention to this situation, Ibn Sina expresses the
opinion that "the sensitivity of a young child is equal to
that of an adult" [3].
n his work "Kutadgu Bilig", the thinker spoke about
child education and wrote: "The more educated,
intelligent, alert the child is, the brighter the face of the
parents." He focuses on the father's responsibility in
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raising a child. "Whoever has a son or daughter is a
man," he writes, "this person will cry for him." If the
father leaves the child orphaned when he is young,
there is no sin in the child, all the punishment is on the
father himself. If the behavior of the son or daughter is
naughty, then the father has done this naughty thing.
"If a father supervises children and teaches them
various trades, when they grow up, he will be happy
that he has a son and daughter. It is necessary to teach
a son and daughter a trade and knowledge, so that
with this trade, their character will be beautiful." A
child gradually learns a trade, learns from life, becomes
knowledgeable, and achieves true human beauty [6].
Raising a child in the family occupies a worthy place in
the legacy of the great thinker poet Alisher Navoi. In his
many works, he reveals that educational issues are a
universal idea. According to him, the maturity of the
society is related to the maturity of the youth, its fate
and future, therefore, the upbringing of the child is a
noble task before the parents.
Alisher Navoi praises the good qualities of parents. The
accumulation of such qualities in them shows that they
play an important role in child education. For example,
his thoughts about wives are noteworthy: "A good
wife, says Navoi, is the state and happiness of the
family, her peace, the owner of the house is calm and
peaceful, if she is cheerful, she is happy, if she is polite,
she is happy." If there is reason, there will be order in
the household. If he is lazy, the heart will suffer from it,
if he is a seeker of evil, the soul will suffer from him. If
he is good-natured, the welfare of the house will be
lost, if he is unwise, the family will be disgraced" [5].
Davany emphasized the role of parents in raising a child
and shaping his worldview. According to his belief,
both father and mother should participate equally in
raising a child, and both should feel equal
responsibility. The father should help the child acquire
good qualities, learn the profession he loves, mature,
and provide him with food, clothes, necessary items
and equipment, which are the material basis for his
acquisition of science and profession. Although Davani
greatly appreciates the role of the father in raising a
child, he still believed that the main difficulty in the
matter of upbringing falls on the mother. Because she
goes through the pain of pregnancy and childbirth. A
mother is the cause of the child's life, gives the first
energy from her div, takes care of it for a long time,
takes care of the child's upbringing and gives her
infinite love to the child.
First of all, parents should teach the child to inculcate
simple moral norms of walking, standing, eating,
drinking, to feel responsible for his actions and to be
ashamed of his bad deeds. Thus, Davani notes that it is
the main duty of parents to deal with the upbringing of
children [4].
It can be seen from the above points that the
education given to a person in the family is unique, and
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American Journal Of Social Sciences And Humanity Research
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Pages:
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SJIF
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1121105677
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parents play a role as the main object of influence in
this process. Therefore, family and family education
play an important role in the formation of self-
relationship in the development of a child's
personality.
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