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ABSTRACT
The preparation and upbringing of Uzbek girls for upbringing in the family is carried out mainly on the basis of national
characteristics. The main reason for this is the main condition for the continuation of the Uzbek nation, the country.
This article provides information about the mechanisms of forming the culture of treatment of girls in puberty.
KEYWORDS
Education, ethics, aesthetics, spiritual and moral qualities, culture of dealing.
INTRODUCTION
The national qualities of an Uzbek citizen are continued
in the family. Such responsibility is assigned to mothers
in the family, so mothers should pay special attention
to educating their daughters in the qualities of a
housewife from the time they are girls. If girls are not
organized on the basis of intellectual, moral, labor,
aesthetic, physical, economic, legal and other
components of education to perform the role of
mother in the family, the young families that will be
formed in the future will not be reliable and strong. In
order to increase the educational opportunities of
Uzbek families, it is necessary to carefully conduct the
Research Article
DEVELOPMENT OF THE MECHANISMS OF FORMING THE CULTURE OF
COMMUNICATION OF GIRLS DURING PUBERTY
Submission Date:
October 01, 2022,
Accepted Date:
October 06, 2022,
Published Date:
October 15, 2022
Crossref doi:
https://doi.org/10.37547/ajsshr/Volume02Issue10-01
Normamatova Sarvinoz Alisher Qizi
TSPI Pedagogic Theory And History, 2nd Year Graduate Student, Uzbekistan
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education of girls. It is better to teach a girl to take care
of herself from a young age. It is very useful to learn
how to fasten a broken button, sew a torn seam,
tighten a torn edge, and sew the ends of clothes. This
is certainly not an easy task. For this, the mother must
be diligent, patient, and teach her daughter the rules
of how to do every job correctly. Some mothers lose
their daughters because of this lack of diligence and
patience. It is necessary to accustom a girl child to have
a pure nature from a young age. To do this, it is
necessary to teach them to wash and comb their hair
on time, to change their clothes on time, and to keep
them neat and tidy. The girl helps her mother in
housework. She tries to act like her mother. It is better
for a mother to put her daughter in work that she can
do, and as she gets older, she should expand both the
type and the size of the work. When a mother orders
her daughter to do something, it is even better if she
shows the way to do it easily and quickly. But it is
important not to forget that the child should be given
freedom.
When assigning work to a child, it is necessary to
understand the intended purpose of the work, to
explain that it is necessary to work patiently in order to
perform it well and with quality. It is educationally
important that both mother and father monitor how
the child performs the assigned task and evaluate the
result of the work.
Usually, a girl child learns to keep a house and tidy up
by following the example of her mother. So, if a mother
takes her daughters along with her while doing
household chores: cooking, setting the table, washing
clothes, cleaning the house, ironing, sewing, and
waiting for guests, it is good for both the mother and
the daughter. is useful. Each of us remembers well
what our mother once said: "What you do for me -
what you learn is for yourself." When it comes to the
virtues of girls, we have no choice but to dwell on the
issue of manners, modesty, and sophistication. This girl
should have modesty and intelligence - her virtue. To
be modest and refined means to be dignified, dignified,
to respect others. It means to keep one's honor clean
by working with reason, to be able to control one's self
in any situation, to think and measure every step. A girl
usually learns these qualities from the good relations
between her closest people. A mother should be able
to teach her daughter to do her work skillfully, to make
her interested in learning a profession, and in this way
she should be encouraged to be patient and persevere.
The most important thing is to be able to fill the
acquired knowledge, behavior or desire to serve. Some
mothers have a misconception that a girl child is
someone else's property, that it will be passed away
before reaching adulthood, and that she will be left to
wear at her parents' home. They pamper older girls,
keep them away from household chores and life
difficulties, and leave them to their own devices. A
mother takes care of the household problems and
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raises her daughter very freely, without realizing that
she is doing something harmful. "I'm going to sleep,"
even grown-up girls will say to their children. In this
way, the mother loses her dignity, and her daughter is
brought up as uneducated, uneducated, useless, and
they forget that she will also become a mother in the
future. "Be a well-educated person," they say, but in
practice, they do the opposite. How can a girl who is
not trained in work and not used to overcome
difficulties become a good person?!
It is not appropriate to leave a growing young girl
alone. If you don't investigate it, you may regret it later.
Because a 15-16-year-old girl does not yet know the
difference between good and bad. He is very
impressive, he is very self-confident. There will be a
time when puberty is coming. That's why a mother
should be close to her daughter, become her confidant
and always keep an eye on her. A mother should
protect her daughter from bad ways by giving advice
and teaching her good deeds. It is easy to bend a young
variety in all directions and to grow it straight. It is good
for both the woman and the man to know everything,
because everything is needed in marriage. People who
say that you can live a meaningful life only by having a
profession along with studying are very wrong. We
often use the phrase "when it gets to the head, it gets
used to everything." We believe that when a girl gets
married, she will follow the path of that family.
However, starting a new family is not an easy task. For
this, the bride must like them with her good sides. If
Uzbek brides please their son-in-law, mother-in-law,
and father-in-law with their three qualities: dexterity in
housework, good manners, intelligence and prudence,
their respect will increase. Because of this, his face will
be bright and his tongue will be bright. Let's say that a
girl child has become a householder, now she needs to
know how to get along with her home, her husband,
her in-laws, and when she becomes a mother, she can
raise her child perfectly. should come out. If the girl is
smart, it's good, she will eat them without difficulty.
What if it grew up at home? Then he hears and pushes.
It often causes family quarrels. It even leads to the
breakdown of marriage. We can see many such life
examples. In the family, a girl child is considered and
brought up as a future mother and housewife of a
young man. Children start doing housework from the
age of 5-6, girls learn sewing, knitting and household
chores. As they are taught to work in the family from a
young age, they learn to keep everything and be
careful.
In addition to the above, folk games and toys for girls
play an important role in the spiritual and moral
upbringing of children in the family. Because at the
heart of the game, firstly, the physical training of the
child lies, and secondly, it opens the way for him to
understand the future life path in the game activity.
Games are important because they teach a child to be
healthy, active, resourceful, resilient, tenacious, and
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intelligent. For example, girls' games such as "doll-doll"
and "aunty-aunty" are a sign of girls' future lives. After
all, through these games, girls get the concepts of
becoming a mother, feeding and raising a child in the
coming adulthood, but they also get used to
understanding the most important feelings, duties,
and responsibilities of parenthood. In this way, they
develop skills such as parental love, loving a child,
raising it with care, and treating it with love. The game
"Holla-Khola", in turn, teaches girls that they should go
back and forth with their relatives, show kindness,
welcome relatives and friends who come home with
open arms, and see them on special days. It helps to
learn concepts such as keeping up, the need to receive
information. As a result, such girls can become good
mothers in the future.
People's living, work and self-defense are reflected in
the content of folk games. It should also be noted that
Uzbek folk games differ from other nations' games in
terms of their activeness, ability to develop the child's
div, and training activities. In this place, the work of
attracting girls to sports is gaining momentum. First of
all, sport creates a foundation for a girl child to grow
into a healthy adult. With the initiatives of President Sh.
Mirziyoev, great attention is being paid to the
development of children's sports in our country,
including the regular participation of girls. Currently,
mainly girls are engaged in athletics, rhythmic
gymnastics, volleyball, basketball, table tennis, chess,
checkers, sports gymnastics, acrobatics, and field
hockey. Widely popularizing sports suitable for our
Uzbek mentality among girls will help the mother of
the nation to be healthy. Today, the development of
sports is connected with the fundamentals of raising
the nation's sons and daughters, strengthening the
Uzbek family, purifying society, and stabilizing
spirituality. Our strategic goal is to improve the
national gene pool and raise the quality of our work in
the field of education of a well-rounded and healthy
generation. One of the scientists - F. Nightingil wrote
that "... now nurses are taking care of patients, but
there will come a time when those in their care will be
healthy, and the nurse's task will be only to care for
them so that they do not become sick." Today, our
contribution to the development of children's sports,
our concern for the physical strength and health of
mothers and daughters, will allow us to bring people
who can form a healthy lifestyle to the society in the
future with fewer sick mothers. When preparing girls
for housewives or motherhood, the above national
characteristics and components of education should
be carried out in accordance with the purpose. In
preparing girls for motherhood in the family, her moral
education is of primary and decisive importance. It is
desirable that the officials, neighborhood, authorities,
adults who are related to marriage and family
problems in the education of girls should have relevant
information about the social and psychological
characteristics of the modern family, marital conflicts,
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and the psychology of family conflicts. . Most of the
brides (daughters) who have joined a new family easily
overcome some of the difficulties that arise, fulfill their
duties as brides to their heart's content, free their
mother-in-law from their worries, and quickly win their
love.
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