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FAMILY AND SCIENCE. MOTIVATION AND PLANS OF MARRIED STUDENTS
Asilova Sanobar Xatamboyevna
Senior lecturer, Department of Pedagogy
Psychology, Kokand University
Abstract:
This article discusses the motivation of young people who get married during their
student years to study, changes in their personal and social lives, and the impact of family life on
the educational process. It also analyzes what psychological and social problems married
students face, what support they need, and the conditions that can be created for them.
Keywords:
Married students, motivation, psychological pressure, family and science, social
support, time management, student plans.
The care of the family by society and the state has become an important direction of our social
policy. The President of the Republic of Uzbekistan Shavkat Mirziyoyev has been paying special
attention to family issues. In his speech to the Oliy Majlis, Shavkat Mirziyoyev specifically
touched upon the processes of preparing young people for a family, forming their legal concepts,
and receiving education: - “In a word, from the moment a child is born to the age of 30, a holistic
and continuous system will be created that will support him in every way and help him find a
worthy place in life. World experience shows that the investment spent on raising the younger
generation in all respects brings ten or a hundred times more benefits to society. “No matter how
difficult it is, we must find our own unique and effective methods for educating young people, in
line with today's times. We must protect our dear children from destructive and harmful ideas,
crime, drug addiction, apathy, and a state of spiritual poverty. "All of us, and first of all, you,
dear young people, must be active in eliminating such negative situations. You are certainly
capable of preserving the spiritual strength and eternal traditions of our people and praising them
to the whole world."”
, – said President Shavkat Mirziyoyev in an open dialogue with young
people at the forum.
Observing the processes of marriage, we often see that two young people decide to get married
while still students. This situation is associated with their personal development, academic
activities and future plans, that is, married students feel the responsibility of being students along
with family relationships.
Married students have a dual motivation:
• The desire to provide for the family materially and spiritually
• The need to continue their education in order to build a solid foundation for the future
Many student couples try to make their studies more effective by supporting each other.
Family responsibilities can have both positive and negative effects on a student's psychological
state:
• Positive aspects: spiritual support, emotional stability, progress in self-awareness
• Negative aspects: lack of time, stress, decreased attention to studies
If there are conflicts in the living environment, this can also negatively affect academic success.
Society's attitude towards a married student is different. Some evaluate this positively, while
others may think that it is necessary to temporarily stop studying. This situation causes self-
doubt in the student or, conversely, forms a strong mental state.
When planning their future, married students have such goals as:
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• Having a stable income
• Ensuring that family members are educated
• A quality approach to raising children.
One of the important stages in a person's life is starting a family. Especially in the lives of young
people, this event significantly changes their worldview, responsibility, and approach to the
future. This situation is no exception among students. When they start a family, positive changes
occur not only in their personal lives, but also in their attitude to study, choosing a profession,
and setting goals. The life of married students is a unique set of tests and opportunities. The most
important factor for them is proper time management, mutual support, and having a clear goal.
Universities and society need to pay more attention to this category of students and form systems
to support them spiritually and materially. After all, a person formed in harmony with family and
science is the most stable and responsible member of society. In conclusion, we can say that
starting a family is a major turning point in the lives of students. This turn increases their
motivation to study, helps to clearly formulate plans and dreams for the future. Therefore, it is no
exaggeration to say that a student's family is not an excessive distraction, but, on the contrary, a
social factor that encourages them to take life and science more seriously. The presence of a
family also plays an important role in ensuring the psychological stability of the student. He
becomes more determined, knowing that he is not alone, but that there are people who support
him spiritually and emotionally. This, in turn, creates a strong internal motivation for him to
express himself, be socially active, and pursue his professional goals.
Therefore, a student's family should not be seen as a factor that distracts him from studying, but,
on the contrary, helps him move faster and more clearly towards his goals. Supporting such
students in society and creating appropriate conditions for them creates the basis for the future
generation to grow up well-rounded and responsible.
References:
1.V.Karimova Family Psychology Textbook Tashkent 2007
2.D. Abdullaeva, R. Yorkulov, N. Atabaeva Family Psychology Textbook Tashkent 2015
3.Khatamboyevna, A. S. (2024). PSYCHOLOGICAL SUPPORT FOR THE PREPARATION
OF STUDENTS FOR FAMILY RELATIONS ON THE EVE OF MARRIAGE. JOURNAL OF
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4. Asilova, S. (2025). THE IMPORTANCE OF PSYCHOLOGICAL SERVICE IN
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