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BRIDGING CULTURES A COMPARATIVE STUDY OF
UZBEK AND RUSSIAN WEDDING TRADITIONS
Turdialiyeva Elnura,
Andijan state university
Annotation.
This article explores the wedding traditions, rituals, and matchmaking customs
in Russian and Uzbek families. Uzbek wedding traditions, which have evolved over centuries, are
renowned for being among the oldest in the world. In Uzbekistan, a wedding is far more than a
festive occasion; it encompasses a series of traditional ceremonies conducted in a specific
sequence. This intricate process can span from a month to an entire year, reflecting the importance
of selecting a suitable bride for young Uzbeks. Families meticulously investigate the prospective
bride, her background, and her environment to ensure she is a worthy life partner.
The initial ceremony, known as “Hatim”,
takes place at the bride's residence, where close
family and friends gather to bless the couple and exchange gifts. Following this is the "Nikah," the
official wedding ceremony, which is held either in a mosque or at the groom's home. After the
“Nikah”, a grand feast is hosted, bringing together relatives and friends to celebrate the union. The
festivities continue the next day with the “Kelin Salom” ceremony, marking the bride's first visit to
her husband's home.
Keywords.
Wedding, matchmaking, matchmakers, groom, bride, parents, tradition, rituals,
ceremony, family, friends, nikah, kelin salom.
MADANIYATLARNI BOSHISH O‘ZBEK VA RUS TO‘Y AN’ANALARINI
QIYOSIY O‘RGANISH
Turdialiyeva Elnura,
Andijon davlat universiteti
Annotatsiya.
Ushbu maqolada rus va oʻzbek oilalaridagi toʻy anʼanalari, urf-odatlari va
sovchilik urf-odatlari oʻrganiladi. Asrlar davomida shakllangan o‘zbek to‘y an'analari dunyodagi
eng qadimiy an'analardan biri sifatida tanilgan. O‘zbekistonda to‘y bayramdan ko‘ra ko‘proq; u
ma'lum bir ketma-ketlikda o‘tkaziladigan bir qator an'anaviy marosimlarni o‘z ichiga oladi. Bu
murakkab jarayon bir oydan butun yilga cho‘zilishi mumkin, bu o‘zbek yoshlari uchun munosib
kelin tanlash muhimligini aks ettiradi. Oilalar kelinning munosib turmush o‘rtog‘i bo‘lishini
ta'minlash uchun bo‘lajak kelinni, uning kelib chiqishini va atrofini sinchkovlik bilan o‘rganadilar.
“Xatim” deb nomlanuvchi dastlabki marosim kelinning qarorgohida bo‘lib o‘tadi, u erda
yaqin oila va do‘stlar er-xotinni duo qilish va sovg‘alar almashish uchun yig‘ilishadi. Shundan
so‘ng masjidda yoki kuyovning uyida o‘tkaziladigan rasmiy nikoh marosimi bo‘lgan “Nikah”.
“Nikoh” dan so‘ng, ittifoqni nishonlash uchun qarindoshlar va do‘stlarni birlashtirgan katta
ziyofat uyushtiriladi. Bayram tantanalari ertasi kuni kelinning turmush o‘rtog‘ining xonadoniga ilk
bor kelishini nishonlaydigan “Kelin salom” marosimi bilan davom etadi.
Kalit so‘zlar.
To‘y, sovchilar, sovchilar, kuyov, kelin, ota-ona, urf-odat, marosim, marosim,
oila, do‘stlar, nikoh, kelin salom.
KÜLTÜRLER ARASINDA KÖPRÜ: ÖZBEK VE RUS DÜĞÜN GELENEKLERİNİN
KARŞILAŞTIRMALI BİR ÇALIŞMASI
Turdialiyeva Elnura,
Andijan devlet üniversitesi
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Özet.
Bu makale, Rus ve Özbek ailelerindeki düğün geleneklerini, ritüellerini ve eş bulma
adetlerini incelemektedir. Yüzyıllar boyunca evrimleşen Özbek düğün gelenekleri, dünyanın en eski
gelenekleri arasında yer almakla ünlüdür. Özbekistan'da bir düğün, şenlikli bir olaydan çok daha
fazlasıdır; belirli bir sırayla gerçekleştirilen bir dizi geleneksel töreni kapsar. Bu karmaşık süreç
bir aydan bir yıla kadar sürebilir ve genç Özbekler için uygun bir gelin seçmenin önemini yansıtır.
Aileler, potansiyel gelini, geçmişini ve çevresini titizlikle araştırarak onun değerli bir hayat
arkadaşı olduğundan emin olurlar. "Hatim" olarak bilinen ilk tören, yakın aile ve arkadaşların çifti
kutsamak ve hediye alışverişinde bulunmak için bir araya geldiği gelinin evinde gerçekleşir. Bunu,
bir camide veya damadın evinde düzenlenen resmi düğün töreni olan “Nikah” izler. "Nikah"tan
sonra, akrabaları ve arkadaşları bir araya getirerek birliği kutlamak için büyük bir ziyafet
düzenlenir. Şenlikler, gelinin kocasının evine ilk ziyaretini işaret eden "Kelin Salom" töreniyle
ertesi gün devam eder.
Anahtar kelimeler.
Düğün, çöpçatanlık, çöpçatanlar, damat, gelin, ebeveynler, gelenek,
ritüeller, tören, aile, arkadaşlar, nikah, kelin salom.
ОБЪЕДИНЕНИЕ КУЛЬТУР СРАВНИТЕЛЬНОЕ ИЗУЧЕНИЕ
УЗБЕКСКИХ И РУССКИХ СВАДЕБНЫХ ТРАДИЦИЙ
Турдиалиева Эльнура,
Андижанский государственный университет
Аннотация.
В этой статье рассматриваются свадебные традиции, ритуалы и
обычаи сватовства в русских и узбекских семьях. Узбекские свадебные традиции, которые
развивались на протяжении веков, известны тем, что являются одними из старейших в
мире. В Узбекистане свадьба – это гораздо больше, чем просто праздничное событие; она
охватывает
ряд
традиционных
церемоний,
проводимых
в
определенной
последовательности. Этот сложный процесс может длиться от месяца до целого года,
что отражает важность выбора подходящей невесты для молодых узбеков. Семьи
тщательно изучают будущую невесту, ее происхождение и ее окружение, чтобы
убедиться, что она является достойным спутником жизни.
Первая церемония, известная как «Хатим», проходит в резиденции невесты, где
собираются близкие родственники и друзья, чтобы благословить пару и обменяться
подарками. Затем следует «Никах» - официальная церемония бракосочетания, которая
проводится либо в мечети, либо в доме жениха. После «Никах» устраивается грандиозный
пир, на котором собираются родственники и друзья, чтобы отпраздновать союз.
Празднества продолжаются на следующий день церемонией «Келин Салом», которая
знаменует первый визит невесты в дом ее мужа.
Ключевые слова.
Свадьба, сватовство, свахи, жених, невеста, родители, традиция,
ритуалы, церемония, семья, друзья, никах, келин Салом.
A wedding ritual within traditional cultures represents a multifaceted sequence of
ceremonial actions that officially signify an individual’s transition to a new social and age-related
status. The traditional Russian wedding exemplifies a complex cultural phenomenon, encompassing
diverse elements of varied origins, characteristics, and functions. Alongside ancient customs such as
handshaking and the symbolic unbraiding of the bride-to-be's braid, the ritual also integrates
Christian traditions, including pilgrimage and the matrimonial ceremony. Similarly, wedding
traditions in Uzbekistan, with roots extending back several centuries, are among the most ancient
globally. Uzbek weddings are celebrated with grandeur, incorporating a rich array of rituals and
meticulously preserved traditions. These ceremonies hold immense significance, not only for the
bride and groom but for their extended families and broader community.
The study of Uzbek folk wedding rites and rituals has garnered attention from numerous
scholars, including M.Alaviya, B.Sarimsakov, M.Zhuraev, S. Davlatov, and O. Ismonova. Despite
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this scholarly interest, the genre structure of folklore within the wedding ceremonies of specific
Uzbek regions remains underexplored. Notably, the matchmaking process is regarded as the
foundational stage of the wedding sequence. Linguistic and cultural analyses suggest that the
etymology of the term "matchmaker" is rooted in notions of benevolence and the conveyance of
auspicious news.
Uzbek weddings unfold through a series of traditional ceremonies performed in a
predetermined order. The selection of a bride is undertaken with considerable deliberation, often
extending over several months, and occasionally lasting up to a year. This process underscores the
cultural emphasis placed on familial harmony and the social responsibilities associated with
marriage.
Marriage represents a lifelong commitment, making the selection of a life partner a matter of
considerable significance. To understand the cultural perspectives surrounding this union, it is
important to examine the similarities and differences between Russian and Uzbek wedding rituals.
Both Russian and Uzbek weddings share the foundational tradition of matchmaking,
wherein the groom's family formally approaches the bride's family to express their intentions.
Matchmaking serves as a formal proposal, seeking the parents' blessing for marriage. Traditionally,
matchmakers – often close relatives such as the groom's father or godparents – are entrusted with
this task. Their responsibilities extend beyond proposing; they also investigate the bride's family
background, dowry, and personal attributes. Occasionally, professional matchmakers are enlisted to
identify suitable candidates.
During matchmaking visits, representatives of the groom’s side present gifts and request
permission for the union. The process is considered a pivotal stage in both cultures, setting the
groundwork for subsequent wedding preparations.
In Uzbekistan, the matchmaking process is typically led by senior female relatives –
grandmothers, mothers, or older sisters. The selection criteria emphasize three main aspects:
A complete and united family structure.
High regard within the community.
Elevated social status.
Education holds paramount importance in selecting a bride. Unlike immediate decisions,
Uzbek tradition encourages patience; the bride's family refrains from giving an immediate response
to avoid premature conclusions. The groom’s family often makes several visits while the bride’s
family gathers information about the prospective groom. Upon favorable findings, the bride’s
family signals consent by presenting a piece of white fabric to the groom’s representatives—a
ceremony known as
oklik oldi
.
In Russian tradition, matchmaking, though less prevalent today, was once central to the
wedding process. Historically, it was imperative to select auspicious days for proposals, avoiding
fast days, even-numbered dates, and especially the 13th. Despite its modern symbolic nature, many
couples revive the ritual to honor familial customs.
Traditionally, matchmaking was conducted discreetly after sunset to ward off ill fortune.
Matchmakers used coded phrases like "You have goods, we have a merchant" to initiate
discussions. The bride remained silent throughout, occasionally showcasing her skills in sewing or
embroidery to demonstrate her diligence. Both families aimed to present the bride and groom in the
best light, highlighting virtues and material stability.
This structured approach to matchmaking in both Russian and Uzbek cultures underscores
the cultural importance placed on careful consideration, family involvement, and community
approval in the journey toward marriage.
In Uzbek culture, the matchmaking ceremony is a significant tradition where representatives
of the groom formally request the bride's hand in marriage. The future of the newlyweds is closely
tied to the involvement of the groom’s family, relatives, and matchmakers. Consequently,
matchmakers carry a considerable responsibility, requiring comprehensive knowledge of both
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families. In cases of limited information, they consult neighbors, relatives, or friends to avoid
potential future complications.
Matchmakers demonstrate persistence, repeatedly visiting the bride’s family until consent is
granted. Upon successful negotiations, the “breaking the cake” ritual signifies the engagement.
Unlike Russian weddings, Uzbek matrimonial customs emphasize extensive preparatory stages and
cultural nuances. The selection of a bride involves experienced family members – typically a
grandmother, mother, or elder sister – focusing on the prospective bride’s family background, moral
upbringing, and social status. High regard is given to candidates from respected, prosperous
households, reinforcing familial and social ties.
While personal affection plays a minor role, the groom retains final decision-making
authority, contingent upon his parents’ approval. Once consent is granted, matchmakers arrange a
pre-scheduled visit to the bride’s home. During this meeting, guests engage in polite conversation
over tea, while the bride attentively hosts, ensuring guests are well-served and comfortable.
Key factors assessed by matchmakers include:
Household organization and cleanliness
The bride’s etiquette and demeanor
Her domestic skills
Family harmony and parental relationships
Interaction between the bride and her elders
Hospitality toward guests
A final decision is traditionally reached after the third visit, culminating in the ceremonial
sharing of cake, symbolizing the bride’s acceptance into the groom’s family. This is followed by the
Fatiha-Tui
- a lavish engagement ceremony featuring gift exchanges and festive celebrations. The
subsequent wedding is a grand event, reflecting the cultural emphasis on joy and community
participation.
Both Uzbek and Russian weddings are vibrant, meaningful occasions deeply rooted in
tradition. These customs, passed down through generations, emdiv the cultural heritage and social
values of each nation.
The wedding traditions of Uzbekistan and Russia, while distinct in certain customs, share
fundamental values centered on family, respect, and social harmony. Both cultures emphasize the
importance of matchmaking as a critical first step in forming marital unions, highlighting the
involvement of elders and the broader community. The Uzbek matchmaking process is marked by
persistence, detailed family assessments, and the symbolic sharing of cake, while the Russian
tradition underscores ceremonial etiquette, auspicious timing, and formal proposals.
These rituals not only facilitate the union of two individuals but also strengthen relationships
between families, ensuring social cohesion and cultural continuity. The careful consideration of
factors such as family reputation, upbringing, and hospitality reflects deep-rooted societal values in
both cultures. Despite modern influences, these time-honored customs remain integral to wedding
celebrations, preserving cultural identity and fostering generational connections. Ultimately, Uzbek
and Russian wedding rituals exemplify the enduring significance of tradition in marking life’s most
important milestones.
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