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THE INFLUENCE OF FAMILY RELATIONS ON THE PSYCHOLOGY OF
CHILDREN AND CONFLICT SITUATIONS
Normatova Muhayyo Dilshod kizi
student of Samarkand State Instituti of Foreign
Languages in Samarkand Uzbekistan
Phone number: +998970719373.
Email: normatovamuhayyo106@gmail.com
https://doi.org/10.5281/zenodo.14215003
Abstract:
As humanity and society progress, humanity and their
relationships to each other also change. Especially in these interpersonal
relationships and in the reactions of people to each other in the events taking
place in the social environment, in addition to the improvement in the most
intimate and close family relationships, sharp changes and many conflict
situations are also observed. , such changes and conflicting situations cause
damage to family relationships, as well as the psychology of children formed in
such situations. Also, there are many shortcomings in the education of such
children. Basically, it causes many conflicts between adults and children in the
family. In this article, you can get acquainted with the causes of the above-
mentioned unpleasant situations and the impact of such situations on the
psychology of children, as well as psychological ways and solutions to get out of
such conflicting situations.
Key words:
Family psychology, conflict situations, child psychology,
constructive, destructive, the emotional function of the family.
Introduction:
As society progresses, social, psychological, physiological
and other changes that occur in people lead to the limitation of the scope of
mutual communication relations to a certain extent and the disappearance of the
naturalness of relations in them, which in the human psyche ; causing emotional
and emotional stress. Such interpersonal relations family life, the law in it is also
expressed in rules and universal values.
The socio-economic development of society at a high level has an impact
on the formation and improvement of individuals together with cultural and
spiritual development. This leads to an increase in demands and wishes placed
on each other in interpersonal relations and to a certain degree of thinning of
interpersonal relations. I should mention here that we can see such situations
not only in social relationships, but also in family relationships. Such situations
cause many conflicts in family relationships and cause divorce in many families.
A high level of socialization of family adults causes a feeling of resentment
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towards each other. If we pay attention to the facts, we can see that the divorce
rate of people with higher education is higher than that of people with
secondary education. The reason for this, as we mentioned above, is the high
demands and wishes of the divorcing persons towards their spouses, and such
situations lead to an increase in many conflicting and unpleasant situations
between them, and such conflict situations that continue all the time – causes
the breakdown of family relations and ultimately leads to family separation.
Divorce in the family causes a lot of damage to the society. That is, the main link
of society is the family. Family plays an important role in the development of any
society. Therefore, divorces in families, together with their influence on the
development of the society, cause great harm to the children who are important
for the society, who are prone to divorce or who are brought up in single-parent
families. Unhealthy environment and relationships in different families and the
increase in the number of divorces in families cause several defects in the
psychology of children growing up in dysfunctional families. There are many
mistakes in the psyche of children brought up or being brought up in such
families. The reason for this is, of course, that he was formed in the wrong
psychological environment in the family and many mistakes were made in his
upbringing. As the child grows up, it constantly leads to a depressive state and
difficulties in the process of entering into interpersonal relationships, as well as
constant conflict situations in relationships with close people. Divorce in the
family causes a lot of damage to the society. That is, the main link of society is
the family. Family plays an important role in the development of any society.
Therefore, divorces in families, together with their influence on the development
of the society, cause great harm to the children who are important for the
society, who are prone to divorce or who are brought up in single-parent
families. Unhealthy environment and relationships in different families and the
increase in the number of divorces in families cause several defects in the
psychology of children growing up in dysfunctional families. There are many
mistakes in the psyche of children brought up or being brought up in such
families. The reason for this is, of course, that he was formed in the wrong
psychological environment in the family and many mistakes were made in his
upbringing. As the child grows up, it constantly leads to a depressive state and
difficulties in the process of entering into interpersonal relationships, as well as
constant conflict situations in relationships with close people. You can also see
that he behaves inappropriately towards adults. The reason for this is, of course,
that they did not get enough of their parents' love during their youth, and
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children who grew up seeing their parents talking to each other in an
inappropriate way in front of their children, walk with hatred towards adults
and a constant mood of resentment and dissatisfaction. is causing him to cry.
Such children often show negative reactions to society. And now you can see
that such children have qualities such as unkindness and selfishness. Character
and main qualities of individuals are formed during adolescence. Adults play an
important role in the development and formation of virtues and qualities in
children during adolescence. Because children usually learn better what they
see. Therefore, parents should be careful about their actions and words in front
of their children. Because children quickly learn their every good action and
word. Children with such an egoistic character are dangerous for society. Or,
most of the children brought up in many dysfunctional and unhealthy families,
apart from the affect state, isolate themselves from the society and social
environment, seem to protect themselves by covering themselves with a shell
and avoid communicating with people. Fearful and indecisive children are
formed. . You can also see that he behaves inappropriately towards adults. The
reason for this is, of course, that they did not get enough of their parents' love
during their youth, and children who grew up seeing their parents talking to
each other in an inappropriate way in front of their children, walk with hatred
towards adults and a constant mood of resentment and dissatisfaction. is
causing him to cry. Such children often show negative reactions to society. And
now you can see that such children have qualities such as unkindness and
selfishness. Character and main qualities of individuals are formed during
adolescence. Adults play an important role in the development and formation of
virtues and qualities in children during adolescence. Because children usually
learn better what they see. Therefore, parents should be careful about their
actions and words in front of their children. Because children quickly learn their
every good action and word. Children with such an egoistic character are
dangerous for society. Or, most of the children brought up in many dysfunctional
and unhealthy families, apart from the affect state, isolate themselves from the
society and social environment, seem to protect themselves by covering
themselves with a shell and avoid communicating with people. Fearful and
indecisive children are formed. . You can also see that he behaves
inappropriately towards adults. The reason for this is, of course, that they did
not get enough of their parents' love during their youth, and children who grew
up seeing their parents talking to each other in an inappropriate way in front of
their children, walk with hatred towards adults and a constant mood of
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resentment and dissatisfaction. is causing him to cry. Such children often show
negative reactions to society. And now you can see that such children have
qualities such as unkindness and selfishness. Character and main qualities of
individuals are formed during adolescence. Adults play an important role in the
development and formation of virtues and qualities in children during
adolescence. Because children usually learn better what they see. Therefore,
parents should be careful about their actions and words in front of their
children. Because children quickly learn their every good action and word.
Children with such an egoistic character are dangerous for society. Or, most of
the children brought up in many dysfunctional and unhealthy families, apart
from the affect state, isolate themselves from the society and social
environment, seem to protect themselves by covering themselves with a shell
and avoid communicating with people. Fearful and indecisive children are
formed.
Therefore, it is necessary to properly form the family, which is considered
the main link of society. Before starting a family, we would suggest young people
who are on the verge of starting a family to start a family only after they are
sufficiently mentally, materially and physically ready for all aspects of family life
and attitudes and issues. Only then, the number of divorces in families would
decrease, and children's upbringing would be improved. Because, in the family,
perfect individuals are raised and matured.
Here, the role of family psychology in reducing and mitigating various
conflict situations in the family is invaluable. In this case, the task of family
psychology is to prepare young people for family life, together with providing
important knowledge about family relations, forming relevant qualifications and
skills based on them.
The tasks of family psychology are as follows;
1. Formation of a full-fledged imagination in young people about the role
of the family in the formation of personality.
2. To acquaint young people in a scientific way about the socio-historical
origin of the family and the unpleasant and incomprehensible situations in
family relations that may arise in the family.
3. To give young people a scientifically based full-fledged idea about the
changes, problems, and laws that occur in family life and to prepare them in a
suitable manner for such events.
4. To teach young people to give a constructive tone to the problems that
arise in family life, to avoid destructive directions.
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5. To teach young people reasonable ways to get out of family relations
and problematic situations in life (in a way that does not negatively affect the
stability of the family and the psyche of children being raised in the family).
6. Formation of skills in choosing the right spouse in young people.
7. Preparing young people for family communication.
8. It consists in forming knowledge and skills that increase the strength of
the family in young people.
The above recommendations will help prevent problems and conflicts in
the family. A conflict is a clash of opposing views, positions, and goals, and such
situations mainly occur in the process of communication. Conflict situations in
the family arise due to differences in views between the elders of the family, that
is, the spouses. And usually, when such a situation occurs, it is better to try to get
out of such a situation rationally, because such seemingly insignificant conflict
situations can lead to the breakdown of the family. First of all, you should try to
be as far away from the things that cause such situations as possible, and try to
solve the things that need to be discussed or resolved through constructive and
calm communication.
The strength of the family and the proper upbringing of children in the
family, the emotional and emotional function of the family - building warm
relationships between each member of the family in the family, kindness, care,
support for each other and it means showing qualities such as treating each
other with respect. In this, the elders of the family should be a good example to
the younger ones. Only then, the spiritual and psychological environment of the
family will be healthy.
In conclusion,
the children in the family should not be harmed due to the
different wishes and desires of the adult. We must be careful in raising children
and communicating with them, and we must form mature and strong willed and
truly patriotic individuals for society.
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